The Counseling Administration

The Counseling Administration and ethical convictions of a client. Clients Ethic Women have an ethical responsibility for their own lives, and only in urgent cases, when the abonent cannot do that, the consultant is entitled to take temporary responsibility for their lives. The purpose of counseling is to help the clients make a positive responsibility for themselves and their relatives. In modern society, people often appear in a situation of shortage of communication and loneliness, looking for a contact to share their experiences and challenges. In order to open the way to a true dialogue with the woman who needs help, you need, first of all, to be fully accessible to her without constraint, concealment and bias. Presence in dialogue means linguistic conformity and identity. Some centers use the consultative talks slang. The consultant should know and understand the jargon, as they can open the way to empathic relationship with the abonent. However, the content side of the jargon is limited, using it, it is impossible to achieve meaningful changes. The application of the consultant is only to achieve initial understanding. As soon as it appears, you should move away from using jargon synonyms or related words from the arsenal of the regulatory language, the importance of which for further positive change is significantly higher. Some women commonly use terms of psychology and psychiatry to describe their condition, such as "stress", "depression", "phobia", "addiction", etc. They should be taken, but after that systematically encourage the person to describe her condition or desired objectives in concrete terms of action ("see", "hear", "feel", "I want"). For example, the description of the specific features of depression makes them visible, tangible, and measurable, that is more accessible to awareness. It also creates an opportunity for distanced perception. Then the most significant for the women signs of depression, such as fear, are translated into action ("What are you afraid of now?"). The consultation dialogue plays a significant role in contextual issue. It can perform, often against the will of communicant, a variety of functions, such as: to blame to advice to assign responsibility to create comfort, to create tension to oppose, to give orders, to protect etc.Using open-ended questions is the best form of consultative conversation. They allow the women to reveal their feelings and concerns, give them freedom to respond in a way that they prefer. Such questions help the abonent to understand the situation. ("What is your feeling?", "How you reacted to what happened?" Etc.). Questions that begin with "what" and "how" encourage women to extend the joint discussion of problems and feelings, clarify complex situation. Consultants usually avoid questions that begin with "why" - "Why do you have an idea of suicide?", "Why did you decide to call us?". On these issues, there is a hidden reproach, blame or censure (Brown, 2007). Telephone conversation is different from full-time counseling conversation because in a telephone dialogue nonverbal bodily movements are excluded. The particularly important characteristics of different voices are the tone, volume, tempo, timbre. During the dialogue, be sure to monitor compliance with verbal expressions and intonation interlocutors. Intonation and modulation of voice truly reflect the emotional state of a person using fixing on her feelings. Psychological support for women is based on the principles of anonymity, absolute openness and accessibility, privacy, which contributes to the establishment of trust and friendly dialogue, aimed at mobilizing the intellectual, spiritual and physical resources of the individuals in order to overcome their crisis. The consultant must maintain a high degree of reflexivity, monitoring, as the state of the society, and for our own. The necessity and usefulness of such services is sufficiently proved with international experience, and the fact that the number of services and outstanding people in them continues to grow, and have subscribers who say a grateful "thank you" for the fact that they live on, for their help in resolving any problem, for the preservation of the family. The very few people address the professional help of counseling centers There are some reasons, one of which is the lack of awareness about their operation. Advertising often only discourage potential abonent, as presents the service as the treatment of pathologies. Thus, a person feels herself a patient, sick person. The media spread information according to which, to ask for help means that people get ready to template solutions to your problem. This contradicts the basic principle of social work - the principle of individual help.